live for yourself. do what makes YOU happy. keep those who love you close. let opportunities come to you. close your eyes and take a leap of faith. you never know unless you try. trust yourself. just because you haven't had it, doesn't mean you never will. circumstances change, so do people, but you will always be you. take care of yourself and those you care about. everything will work out in the end, if it's not ok, it's not the end.